SORRY..!!

 Heyy what the hell!! You stamped my feet....and immediately the reaction comes out..”ohh am soooo SORRY”!!! I just din’t happen to see your feet lady/sir. I am sure many of us, infact each one of us would have come across such a situation, and without any hesitation the word SORRY is uttered.

This made me think....to a stranger, whom we have just met for the first time, a person we never know if we would meet again..... we happen to use the most beautiful word....the word which is filled with unlimited feelings...”SORRY”!! I definitely know for many people this is just another word in the dictionary, with a predefined meaning, but for me it’s definitely not so...The word “SORRY” makes a world of difference to me.

   Many a times, friends plan to go out, a movie or just a meet up, and out of my experience i know for sure there is always some one who wants to make the last entry, call it the entry for full attention:)..this person walks in with this huge smile...hey am really sorry yaar... i just got late(but ofcourse there are some genuine sorry tellers, so  no offence please)!! Yaar when you did this on purpose why do you even have to feel sorry about it!! What am just trying to say is, sorry is actually supposed to be a feeling from the heart, a feeling of guilt, a feeling of sympathy, a feeling of pity and not just a mere saying!!

Be it in any relationship..between parents-children, brother-sister, friends, a couple and so on, fights are always obvious!! But really how many people build the courage to say a SORRY when they are at fault??!! That’s when people actually realize the power of the 5 letter word.. it’s just so difficult to say  S-O-R-R-Y!!!! The ego comes out with great grace then,and we think..  why should i be sorry..anyway it wont make any difference to her/him. Actually speaking let him/her tell me sorry, why should i??!! But in reality we never realize that  we are just so scared to tell this word and so we wait for the other person to make a start!! 

  Personally many a times it has happened with me, i keep waiting for the other person to tell me the magical word so that i feel really better..infact i just wait for no reasons but a simple sorry from the HEART!! And trust me, the word has such warm feelings that i really forget the reason what had actually caused the deep pain!! But slowly when  situations got worse and such things happened so regularly i happened to think about the other person..when am so desperately waiting for the magical word so must be the other. And definitely when  i realized this i started making the first move! Suddenly all the tension started to disappear  and everything was back to normal. 

  Many a times relations break...just for the want of a sorry...people become so ego oriented that they never mind waiting but will never want to give up!! Just think, its your own lovable friend, blood relation, sweetheart whom you are actually hurting so much...and there is no much expectation but just a simple SORRY!! It’s high time people give up their ego’s and put a step forward..am sure at the end of everything you will enjoy the whole feeling..you would feel a great burden has got off your shoulders and sense of closeness would automatically increase....

 We would have come across in many hindi movies...

“Dosti mein no sorry no thank you”(meaning...there is no sorry and thank you in    friendship!!)

Definitely i would say who ever had written these lines had never felt sorry for any of his/her friends nor anyone or may be just never understood the power of the 5 letter word!! All i wanted to convey through this write up is.... when you are really feeling bad that what happened was all because of you...please do not hesitate to tell “ heyy am really SORRY dear...i never meant to hurt you”!! if not surely you might have to regret!!

P.S  When actually you feel bad about what you have done, or say something has gone wrong because of you.... don’t ever shy off to say “SORRY”. Trust me it makes wonders happen!! 

I don’t expect that  each one of you reading this has to accept it as such...it’s just what i think!! If i could make you think about this..then its a great accomplishment for me...but if i have made statements that hurt  you then am really.......................SORRY!!!!!